Unlearning to Remember: The Body Knows the Way Back

The wisdom of generations is already in your body. This is your invitation to remember.

I watch women remember themselves.

They arrive during liminal moments in their lives. Some are hoping to conceive. Some are pregnant. Some arrive with newborns in their arms, or a toddler in tow. Others are moving through the menopause journey. Different chapters, yet the same quiet story surfaces: somewhere along the way, many women stopped trusting their bodies.

This disconnection usually begins early. At puberty we are taught to override our cycles, ignore hormonal shifts, and push through discomfort. We learn to treat our bodies like machines rather than living, cyclical systems.

But a woman’s life is a hormonal journey, and it is all connected. From the first cycle to fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, and through menopause, the body is constantly shifting, asking us to listen, adapt, and honor the wisdom within.

At Metta Mama, I support women through these transitions with fertility yoga, prenatal and postnatal yoga, mom and tot classes, mother’s circles, hormonal panels, and workshops. While the stages differ, the work is surprisingly similar.

It often begins with unlearning.

Unlearning that strength means pushing harder.
Unlearning that rest is unproductive.
Unlearning that we must navigate these transitions alone.

And as that unlearning begins, something shifts. Women start to breathe a little deeper. They learn to release the pelvic floor instead of gripping it. Their bodies begin to unwind, creating spaciousness to become curious about thoughts and patterns they may hold. They notice the subtle language of their nervous system and hormones, reconnecting with their felt sense, that quiet inner knowing so many women were taught to silence. We unwind the body from the ground up, releasing tension that becomes habitual from all we are asked to carry.

In these moments, we remember something ancient.

Women have always been healers. Women have always lived in cycles. Women have always learned from one another.

Last month was Women’s History Month, and we celebrated those who broke public barriers. But another lineage deserves honor: the women who gathered, shared knowledge about their bodies, and supported one another through life’s many thresholds.

At Metta Mama, I see that lineage continuing through movement, through breath, one woman remembering herself at a time.

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